Savage Love
Quickies
Dear Dan: I'm a heavy sleeper, and my wife knows that, but not so heavy that I don't wake up when she periodically masturbates...
Done wrong
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Dear Dan: I’m a gay Black man in my...
Hard truths
Dear Dan: I’m awoman who married young (21) and I’ve been with my husband for seven years. Within the last year, I’ve realized that...
Bad guys
Dear Dan: I met a guy right around the time my boyfriend dumped me. I met him on a dating site, but he was...
Secret bisexuality and dating app usage; Erectile dysfunction meds
Dear Dan: I’m a 29-year-old man who desires a monogamous relationship. I’m currently in an LTR with a 29-year-old woman. Despite my feelings about...
The Girls
Dear Dan: My boyfriend and I were having relationship issues until we tried something new: pegging. He wanted to try it, but he was...
Footrubs and funerals
Dear Dan: Young, gay, gym member. A few years ago, I was alone in the sauna when this older guy asked if he could...
Aroused state
Dear Dan: I'm a 31-year-old female. Last week I suddenly started to experience an overwhelming, compulsive, and near-constant state of physical arousal. I've masturbated...
Quickies
Dear Dan: I’ve been faithfully reading your column in the Chicago Reader for years, and now I’m reaching out to you about my own...
Giving back for all the porn; Inappropriate dad jokes
Dear Dan: Over the years, I have consumed what I believe to be an average amount of porn for a 44-year-old hetero guy. I...
Queer quickies
Dear Dan: I just attended the nauseating wedding of my 30-year-old niece to her boyfriend of several years. Both of them seem as gay as...
Cornhole; The perfect match; In need of a therapist
Dear Dan: What are your favorite uses for the butt plug besides putting it in your own butt or someone else’s butt?
— Fun Faggy...
