Savage Love
Bad guys
Dear Dan: I met a guy right around the time my boyfriend dumped me. I met him on a dating site, but he was...
Savage Love: Nov. 28, 2023
About ten years ago, I was in a serious relationship with someone I loved more than I had ever loved anyone before. I hoped...
Aroused state
Dear Dan: I'm a 31-year-old female. Last week I suddenly started to experience an overwhelming, compulsive, and near-constant state of physical arousal. I've masturbated...
Done wrong
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Dear Dan: I’m a gay Black man in my...
The Girls
Dear Dan: My boyfriend and I were having relationship issues until we tried something new: pegging. He wanted to try it, but he was...
Quickies
Dear Dan: I’ve been faithfully reading your column in the Chicago Reader for years, and now I’m reaching out to you about my own...
Secret bisexuality and dating app usage; Erectile dysfunction meds
Dear Dan: I’m a 29-year-old man who desires a monogamous relationship. I’m currently in an LTR with a 29-year-old woman. Despite my feelings about...
Queer quickies
Dear Dan: I just attended the nauseating wedding of my 30-year-old niece to her boyfriend of several years. Both of them seem as gay as...
Quickies
Dear Dan: I'm a heavy sleeper, and my wife knows that, but not so heavy that I don't wake up when she periodically masturbates...
Down there
Dear Dan: Background: I, a 21-year-old male, enjoy receptive fisting. I’ve also had constipation problems all my life. Question: I saw my doctor recently,...
Cornhole; The perfect match; In need of a therapist
Dear Dan: What are your favorite uses for the butt plug besides putting it in your own butt or someone else’s butt?
— Fun Faggy...
Blowing up
Dear Dan: I’m committed to my male partner and he’s committed to me. (I’m a woman.) But we both understand we need to flirt...
