Savage Love
Holing Up
Dear Dan: My husband and I got married in August of 2019 and we were together for over five years before getting married. I’m...
Quickies
Dear Dan: I'm a heavy sleeper, and my wife knows that, but not so heavy that I don't wake up when she periodically masturbates...
Queer quickies
Dear Dan: I just attended the nauseating wedding of my 30-year-old niece to her boyfriend of several years. Both of them seem as gay as...
Blowing up
Dear Dan: I’m committed to my male partner and he’s committed to me. (I’m a woman.) But we both understand we need to flirt...
Shop around
Dear Dan: I’m a straight cis woman in my early 40s and a single mother. I have not dated or hooked up with anyone...
The long game
Dear Dan: I’m a 30-year-old bi male. I’ve been with my wife for five years, married nine months. A month into our relationship, I...
Quickies
Q: Gay dude here. What the fuck is up with monkeypox? Do I need to be worried?
A: Yes, you do. I tried to raise...
The no-pandemic challenge
Dear Dan: Your last two columns and your last two podcasts were all about the pandemic. Everything everywhere is all about the pandemic right...
Love and leashes
Dear Dan: I’m a married gay man. I’m nervous about sending this question and my husband is afraid you might answer it. I’m a...
Consessions
Dear Dan: I’m a 29-year-old straight male. I’ve been with my 25-year-old partner for six years. I love her and think that we are...
Baby soft
Dear: I’m a 27-year-old, male, adult baby/diaper lover (AB/DL). I’ve been in the closet about my fetish basically since puberty. As a consequence, I...
