Savage Love
Soft problem, hard choice
Dear Dan: My husband is nearly 20 years older than me, which was never an issue early in our relationship. However, for approximately the...
Lopsiders
Dear Dan: Bi married man here. I was always out to my wife, but two months ago, I came out to our tight circle...
A smatter of questions
Last week, I spoke at the Wilbur Theater in Boston and the Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute in Troy, New York. Audience members submitted their questions...
Dan keeps it brief
Dear Dan: Are you incapable of concision? Your answers are too long! You blather on, often rehashing the problem (unnecessary!) before giving four words...
Workmates
Dear Dan: When I first started dating my girlfriend, I asked her about past boyfriends and she said she hadn’t met the right guy...
It it me?; Anti-climax; She cheated, not me; My new gay...
Dear Dan: I’m a single gay male in my 40s. I have a good life and do good work. I’m not worried about finding...
Consessions
Dear Dan: I’m a 29-year-old straight male. I’ve been with my 25-year-old partner for six years. I love her and think that we are...
SAVAGE Love | Week of December 19
Dear Dan: I’ve talked to my girlfriends, my mom and his mom, but I need some unbiased advice. I’m a 28-year-old woman in a relationship for three-and-a-half years with a wonderful man, also 28...
Big moves
Dear Dan: I was raised in a religious home and didn’t lose my virginity until the embarrassing age of 26. I was told by...
Savage Love: Nov. 09, 2023
Dear Dan: I have a question that is neither related to sex or relationships, but rather on the ethics of doing a theater project...
The perfect fit?
Dear Dan: I’m a 29-year-old straight woman facing a dilemma. I dated this guy about a year ago, and in many ways he was...
Quickies
Dear Dan: My ex-girlfriend, who I dated for nine months, called me two months after we broke up and accused me of giving her...
