Savage Love
Pride and preference
I’m taking a week off, so this week’s “Savage Love” is a reprint of a column that was originally published on January 13, 2016....
Boys come and go but sisters are forever
Dear Dan: I’m a reader in Kansas with two teenage daughters, 16 and 18. My girls recently met a boy where they work and...
SAVAGE Love
Dear Dan: My son is 15 going on 16, and he’s been experimenting with masturbation. At the moment, I pretty much just think fine, whatever, he’s a teenager, there’s very little I can do about it. So long as he doesn’t get porn-obsessed and start letting his grades ...
Bloody business
Dear Dan: I am a 60-year-old heterosexual man, and I am being told that I’m normal. I have been to several urologists, and they...
SAVAGE LOVE
Dear Dan: I consider myself one of the lucky ones: happily married for decades, with a long-term girlfriend. GF is at this point part of the family, and while it hasn’t always been an easy arrangement to sort out, it has worked for over a decade. Recently, I’ve been ...
Deep cucks
Dear Dan: I am a bi, white, married man — 35 years old and living in a big Midwestern city. I’d like to know...
Cutting remarks
Dear Dan: I’m having a problem advising a friend. She’s been through a divorce and now the breaking off of an engagement. To put...
No oral; Worship fetish; Men’s feet
Dear Dan: I’m a straight woman in my early 30s, and I just don’t like receiving oral sex. I love giving blowjobs and can...
SAVAGE Love
Dear Dan: I’m a twentysomething genetic male. I thought for a while that I might be trans, but I ended up deciding that while I hate my masculine features and like girl clothes and want to be “cute,” I have no desire to be female and don’t want to have breasts or a ...
Jerked around
There is more to this week’s Savage Love. To read the entire column, go to Savage.Love.
Dear Dan: I've been with my wife for 10...
Done wrong
There is more to this week’s Savage Love. To read the entire column, go to Savage.Love.
Dear Dan: I’m a gay Black man in my...








