Savage Love
Retroactive blessings
Dear Dan: Without snooping, I came across texts between my wife “Mary” and a guy “Jeremy” of a very sexual nature. While I would...
Fair shares
Dear Dan: 42-year-old dad here. I’ve been married for 12 years, and my marriage has been somewhat turbulent. But after some affairs—one where my...
Love the husband over there
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Dear Dan: I’m a 36-year-old...
Crushed
Dear Dan: I’m a 42-year-old gay man. I’ve been with my husband for 21 years. We met in college and, except for a six-month...
Dicks deluxe
Dear Dan: A few months ago, I started dating someone. I made it clear early on that I didn’t feel comfortable being in a...
Premies
Dear Dan: I'm a straight man who’s been dating a woman for not quite four months. In the beginning things were light. But things...
Quickies
Dear Dan: My fiancé and I have been in a relationship for 11 years. His best friend is one of his exes, and that...
Sub space
Dear Dan: I’m a 26-year-old bisexual woman with a history of self-harm. It hasn’t been much of an issue for the last few years,...
Not without guilt
Dear Dan: A man impregnated me about a month into our relationship. He is adamantly against having the kid, as it’s too soon. I...
Dick down
Dear Dan: I’m a cis woman in her 30s who lives on the East Coast. I’ve been in an LTR with the same cis man...
Game over
Dear Dan: Is it ever ok to stop being GGG?
I’ve been with my husband for 26 years. Shortly after we got together, my husband disclosed...
Shop around
Dear Dan: I’m a straight cis woman in my early 40s and a single mother. I have not dated or hooked up with anyone...
