Savage Love
Quickies
Dear Dan: I’ve been faithfully reading your column in the Chicago Reader for years, and now I’m reaching out to you about my own...
Boundaries
Dear Dan: I’m a 42-year-old single, straight female who recently started dating a 36-year-old man in a somewhat exclusive, long-distance relationship. We have known...
Knowing you
Dear Dan: I'm a 40-year-old gay male. I live in a big city, in a dense neighborhood. While I've been working from home during COVID,...
Cornhole; The perfect match; In need of a therapist
Dear Dan: What are your favorite uses for the butt plug besides putting it in your own butt or someone else’s butt?
— Fun Faggy...
The sins of the grandfather
Dear Dan: My grandfather was a pillar of the community and beloved by his family. He was also sexually abusive. He died when I...
Shop around
Dear Dan: I’m a straight cis woman in my early 40s and a single mother. I have not dated or hooked up with anyone...
Four play
Dear Dan: Why are threesomes much more accepted in the popular imagination than foursomes? I was just googling "finding foursomes" and the first result is...
Holing Up
Dear Dan: My husband and I got married in August of 2019 and we were together for over five years before getting married. I’m...
Schooled me once
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Dear Dan: I’m a 38-year-old cis het woman who...
Down there
Dear Dan: Background: I, a 21-year-old male, enjoy receptive fisting. I’ve also had constipation problems all my life. Question: I saw my doctor recently,...
Hard feelings
Dear Dan: I keep running into the same issue with my best friend of five years. (She’s also my maid of honor at my...
De-kinked
Dear Dan: I know you and other sexperts say that kinks are ingrained and not something you can get rid of, but mine have...
