Savage Love
Down there
Dear Dan: Background: I, a 21-year-old male, enjoy receptive fisting. I’ve also had constipation problems all my life. Question: I saw my doctor recently,...
Hard feelings
Dear Dan: I keep running into the same issue with my best friend of five years. (She’s also my maid of honor at my...
Devastation
Dear Dan: I am at a loss. I am devastated. I just found out my husband has been sexting with another woman. As if...
The long game
Dear Dan: I’m a 30-year-old bi male. I’ve been with my wife for five years, married nine months. A month into our relationship, I...
Quickies
Q: Gay dude here. What the fuck is up with monkeypox? Do I need to be worried?
A: Yes, you do. I tried to raise...
Jerked around
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Dear Dan: I've been with my wife for 10...
Savage Love 9/1/22
Dear Dan: I’m a 29-year-old gay man just shy of five years sober. I’ve had to do a lot of work on myself in...
Workmates
Dear Dan: When I first started dating my girlfriend, I asked her about past boyfriends and she said she hadn’t met the right guy...
Savage livestream
I want to thank everyone who attended our third Savage Love Livestream last Saturday night. Mistress Matisse was our very special guest and we...
#metoo bad behavior?
Dear Dan: I’m part of a nonhierarchical polycule. In a few months, one of my girlfriends will be marrying her fiancée. I’ll be attending...
Big little lies
Dear Dan: I’m a gay man in my late 20s finishing up a graduate program and dating a man who is 38. The sex...
The Trump Talk
Dear Dan: Waiting to pay for my groceries at the market this evening, this guy, stinking of booze, says to my 9-year-old daughter, “Sweetheart,...











