Savage Love
Quickies
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Q: At a party recently I was chatting with...
#metoo bad behavior?
Dear Dan: I’m part of a nonhierarchical polycule. In a few months, one of my girlfriends will be marrying her fiancée. I’ll be attending...
Fuck around and find out
Dear Dan: I've been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years and we have a great relationship — or so I thought. Last week, I...
Open and shut
Dear Dan: Straight guy here in a one-sided open relationship. My wife and I opened our relationship just for her and to females only,...
Premies
Dear Dan: I'm a straight man who’s been dating a woman for not quite four months. In the beginning things were light. But things...
Racist partner; Gay bar bachelorette parties; Secret stash of porn featuring...
Dear Dan: I’m 33, blah blah blah, and live in a big city. I’ve been dating an age-appropriate person for a year and a...
Big little lies
Dear Dan: I’m a gay man in my late 20s finishing up a graduate program and dating a man who is 38. The sex...
Reunion blues
Dear Dan: I fell in love with my second cousin about four years ago at a family reunion. (I hadn’t laid eyes on him...
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Dear Dan: I have a question that is neither related to sex or relationships, but rather on the ethics of doing a theater project...
Knowing you
Dear Dan: I'm a 40-year-old gay male. I live in a big city, in a dense neighborhood. While I've been working from home during COVID,...
Old times
Dear Dan: I’m a nearly-80 straight male, with undiminished libido. I have no problem with it, just a persistent curiosity. Like, why now? And...
Brownie points
I’m a cis bi woman, and I mainly have sex with people with penises. I have a really gross problem, sorry. It’s been an...
