Savage Love
Knowing you
Dear Dan: I'm a 40-year-old gay male. I live in a big city, in a dense neighborhood. While I've been working from home during COVID,...
Savage Love 9/1/22
Dear Dan: I’m a 29-year-old gay man just shy of five years sober. I’ve had to do a lot of work on myself in...
Schooled me once
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Dear Dan: I’m a 38-year-old cis het woman who...
Cheaters club
Dear Dan: I am a guy in my 40s, handsome, more financially successful than most, and a classic sexual scoundrel. I cheated on my...
Savage Love: Nov. 09, 2023
Dear Dan: I have a question that is neither related to sex or relationships, but rather on the ethics of doing a theater project...
Shrinkage
Dear Dan: I’m an otherwisehealthy male of 54. When I was a teen, my cock measured about six-and-a-half inches. Not small, not huge, pretty...
Fuck around and find out
Dear Dan: I've been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years and we have a great relationship — or so I thought. Last week, I...
Pair of Jacks
Dear Dan: I have a secret: For the past three months, I’ve been attending a local Jacks club (a men-only masturbation event). As someone...
Fantasy figures
Dear Dan: I’ve been married for 30 years to the same man. I have dealt with his tantrums, his screaming, and his fits. He’s...
Open and shut
Dear Dan: Straight guy here in a one-sided open relationship. My wife and I opened our relationship just for her and to females only,...
Jealous typologies
Dear Dan: I’ve been in a relationship with a wonderful guy for the past year. The only problem is that he works with a...
Racist partner; Gay bar bachelorette parties; Secret stash of porn featuring...
Dear Dan: I’m 33, blah blah blah, and live in a big city. I’ve been dating an age-appropriate person for a year and a...
