Savage Love
Reunion blues
Dear Dan: I fell in love with my second cousin about four years ago at a family reunion. (I hadn’t laid eyes on him...
Devastation
Dear Dan: I am at a loss. I am devastated. I just found out my husband has been sexting with another woman. As if...
Old times
Dear Dan: I’m a nearly-80 straight male, with undiminished libido. I have no problem with it, just a persistent curiosity. Like, why now? And...
Numb and numbered
Dear Dan: I'm a cis bi guy in my 40s who doesn’t have a lot of experience with other men. I'm happily married to...
Improv classes, dating apps and navigating kinks
Dear Dan: I’m a 30-year-old woman, and about a year ago I started taking improv classes to help combat my social anxiety. I met...
Big moves
Dear Dan: I was raised in a religious home and didn’t lose my virginity until the embarrassing age of 26. I was told by...
Outer limits
Dear Dan: I’m a gay guy in my late 40s with a straight sister in her early 50s. She’s been married for a bit...
Quickies
Dear Dan: I am a super queer presenting female who recently accepted that I have desires for men. My partner of two years is bisexual...
Sex life dud; Bi guy woes
Dear Dan: Straight male, 48, married 14 years, three kids under age 10. Needless to say, life is busy at our house. My wife...
Bloody business
Dear Dan: I’m a professional dominatrix, and I thought I’d seen everything in the last five years. But this situation completely baffled the entire...
