Savage Love
Outer limits
Dear Dan: I’m a gay guy in my late 40s with a straight sister in her early 50s. She’s been married for a bit...
Cheaters club
Dear Dan: I am a guy in my 40s, handsome, more financially successful than most, and a classic sexual scoundrel. I cheated on my...
Shrinkage
Dear Dan: I’m an otherwisehealthy male of 54. When I was a teen, my cock measured about six-and-a-half inches. Not small, not huge, pretty...
Crazy switch Asians
Dear Dan: I’m a straight white woman in my early 30s. In theory, I’ve always been into men of all races — but in...
Quickies
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Q: At a party recently I was chatting with...
Fuck around and find out
Dear Dan: I've been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years and we have a great relationship — or so I thought. Last week, I...
Numb and numbered
Dear Dan: I'm a cis bi guy in my 40s who doesn’t have a lot of experience with other men. I'm happily married to...
Premies
Dear Dan: I'm a straight man who’s been dating a woman for not quite four months. In the beginning things were light. But things...
The casserole
Dear Dan: Something is bothering me and I don’t know where else to turn. I’m a bisexual man. I’ve been married to a great...
Stating the obvious
Dear Dan: I’m a gay guy who’s involved with a guy I met a few months before COVID-19 took off. He's a great guy, smart,...
The doll
Dear Dan: I am a 56-year-heterosexual man, and I have lived with ALS for the past six years. I am either in a wheelchair...
Showing up
Dear Dan: How does one get into the gay BDSM bottoming and leather scene?
— Seeking Answers Concerning Kink
Dear SACK: One shows up, SACK. “Eighty...




