Savage Love
Old times
Dear Dan: I’m a nearly-80 straight male, with undiminished libido. I have no problem with it, just a persistent curiosity. Like, why now? And...
Devastation
Dear Dan: I am at a loss. I am devastated. I just found out my husband has been sexting with another woman. As if...
Numb and numbered
Dear Dan: I'm a cis bi guy in my 40s who doesn’t have a lot of experience with other men. I'm happily married to...
Improv classes, dating apps and navigating kinks
Dear Dan: I’m a 30-year-old woman, and about a year ago I started taking improv classes to help combat my social anxiety. I met...
Quickies
Dear Dan: I am a super queer presenting female who recently accepted that I have desires for men. My partner of two years is bisexual...
Outer limits
Dear Dan: I’m a gay guy in my late 40s with a straight sister in her early 50s. She’s been married for a bit...
The sins of the grandfather
Dear Dan: My grandfather was a pillar of the community and beloved by his family. He was also sexually abusive. He died when I...
Bloody business
Dear Dan: I’m a professional dominatrix, and I thought I’d seen everything in the last five years. But this situation completely baffled the entire...
Dumplings
Dear Dan I’ve been living with my boyfriend for a year. We met on FetLife and I was honest about being in an open...
Streamers
Hey, Everybody: We had our first Savage Love Livestream event last Thursday night and I had such a blast! A huge crowd of Savage...
Managing partners; Mutual GGG
Dear Dan: I’m 28 years old and have been with my boyfriend (also 28) for three years. Our relationship is monogamous and vanilla. I’m...
Kinked gays
Dear Dan: I have a question. I’m a gay man in a relationship and we’re both really happy since we met a year ago....
