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Polyamorist’s plaything
Dear Dan: I am a 34-year-old straight woman. I’m monogamous and have an avoidant attachment style. I’ve been seeing a guy I really like....
Sack lunch
On the first Thursday of every month I host “Sack Lunch,” an online hangout exclusively for Magnum subscribers to the Savage Lovecast. I take...
Amazed and confused
Dear Dan: I’ve been with the same amazing man a dozen years. We’ve had our ups and our downs, same as any other couple,...
Come the revolution
Dear Dan: I’m a straight woman and have been sexually active for about six years. I’m in my mid-20s now and about ready to...
Standards
Dear Dan: I’m a Seattle local who basically grew up reading your column. I think you’ve always given really sound advice, so I’m reaching...
Open wide
Dear Dan: My roommate is a gay man who is into getting fisted. A lot. We were FWBs until he moved into my place,...
Numb and numbered
Dear Dan: I'm a cis bi guy in my 40s who doesn’t have a lot of experience with other men. I'm happily married to...
Why not me?
Dear Dan: I found your column after a Google search. I saw your e-mail address at the bottom and was hoping for some insight....
Quickies
Dear Dan: I’m a woman who recently went out on a third date with a man. I invited him back to my place and...
No cheating, just vomit.
Dear Dan: I’ve been aware of my emetophilia since a very young age and have always kept it private. No need to tell me...
Open ended
Dear Dan: I’m a mid-20s cis straight man. After my girlfriend and I finished college, she moved overseas to start her job. We’ve broken...
Blocked
Dear Dan: My boyfriend and I were friends for a couple of years (we're both 30-year-old gay men), then I stopped traveling around the...
