Savage Love
Amazed and confused
Dear Dan: I’ve been with the same amazing man a dozen years. We’ve had our ups and our downs, same as any other couple,...
Kinked gays
Dear Dan: I have a question. I’m a gay man in a relationship and we’re both really happy since we met a year ago....
Streamers
Hey, Everybody: We had our first Savage Love Livestream event last Thursday night and I had such a blast! A huge crowd of Savage...
Come the revolution
Dear Dan: I’m a straight woman and have been sexually active for about six years. I’m in my mid-20s now and about ready to...
Loaded question
Dear Dan: Let’s say my kink is edging and I edge myself for a few days leading up to a date. Is it my...
Big moves
Dear Dan: I was raised in a religious home and didn’t lose my virginity until the embarrassing age of 26. I was told by...
Cringe and purge
Dear Dan: I’m a 59-year-old man in good health. For basically my whole adult life, I’ve had this problem during intercourse with a woman...
Polyamorist’s plaything
Dear Dan: I am a 34-year-old straight woman. I’m monogamous and have an avoidant attachment style. I’ve been seeing a guy I really like....
Brownie points
I’m a cis bi woman, and I mainly have sex with people with penises. I have a really gross problem, sorry. It’s been an...
Why not me?
Dear Dan: I found your column after a Google search. I saw your e-mail address at the bottom and was hoping for some insight....







