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Boundaries
Dear Dan: I’m a 42-year-old single, straight female who recently started dating a 36-year-old man in a somewhat exclusive, long-distance relationship. We have known...
Shafted
Dear Dan: I’m a European heterosexual girl and reading your column from afar has been a good way for me to better know the...
Bound and gagging
Dear Dan: I’ve always wanted to tie girls up, but I can never convince a woman to let me. Lately, I’ve been exploring “bondage...
Necking
Dear Dan: In a frank exchange early in our courtship, I told my girlfriend that I have no kinks. As a faithful reader of...
Showing up
Dear Dan: How does one get into the gay BDSM bottoming and leather scene?
— Seeking Answers Concerning Kink
Dear SACK: One shows up, SACK. “Eighty...
No cheating, just vomit.
Dear Dan: I’ve been aware of my emetophilia since a very young age and have always kept it private. No need to tell me...
Secret perving
Dear Dan: I’ve been enjoying consensual nonmonogamy for the past two years, in part thanks to your column and podcast. I have a delightful...
Four play
Dear Dan: Why are threesomes much more accepted in the popular imagination than foursomes? I was just googling "finding foursomes" and the first result is...
Brownie points
I’m a cis bi woman, and I mainly have sex with people with penises. I have a really gross problem, sorry. It’s been an...
European adventures
Dear Dan: We're an adventurous, bisexual, non-monogamous, opposite-sex couple with a teenage kid living in Europe. We don't really struggle with finding and trying...
Sack lunch
On the first Thursday of every month I host “Sack Lunch,” an online hangout exclusively for Magnum subscribers to the Savage Lovecast. I take...
Disclosed
Dear Dan: Garbage human here. I’ve had herpes for about 15 years. The first five years, I was in a relationship with a guy...
