Savage Love
Savage Love 2/10/22
Dear Dan: I’m a 40-year-old bi guy, and I’m really into drinking cum. I say “drinking” and not “swallowing” because I’m talking about glassfuls....
Poly wants
Dear Dan: I’m a 25-year-old woman currently in a poly relationship with a married man roughly 20 years my senior. This has by far...
The fine line of rough sex
Dear Dan: I’m your average straight 42-year-old white guy. Married for a little less than a year (second marriage for both). We have an...
Counseled culture
Dear Dan: Hello! I am a heterosexual man! My wife came out as a lesbian after 30 years of marriage. We have children together...
Cam what may
Dear Dan: I started reading your column when I was a 20-year-old kid. Now I’m an old married lady with 20 years of (more...
The perfect fit?
Dear Dan: I’m a 29-year-old straight woman facing a dilemma. I dated this guy about a year ago, and in many ways he was...
Fair shares
Dear Dan: 42-year-old dad here. I’ve been married for 12 years, and my marriage has been somewhat turbulent. But after some affairs—one where my...
The toll of mental health, using more sop, DTMFA and Dan...
Dear Dan: I’ve been in an on-again, off-again relationship for the past four years. My girlfriend has an assortment of mental-health issues — anxiety,...
What do I tell the stripper?; Bye reader
Dear Dan: My partner and I have been playing with male chastity devices. We’ve been considering going to a strip club while his cock...
Losing out
Dear Dan: I'm a lesbian and my girlfriend is bi. I've read your column and listened to your podcast for a long time, Dan, and...
Tell the Grindrs what you want; Threesome minus one
Dear Dan: I’m a middle-aged homo trying to figure out Grindr. Is it impolite to go on Grindr if you’re not looking for an...
