Savage Love
Poly wants
Dear Dan: I’m a 25-year-old woman currently in a poly relationship with a married man roughly 20 years my senior. This has by far...
Q&A from the Savage Love Livestream 2
We hosted our second Savage Love Livestream last week and it was a blast. I ran my mouth as fast as I could but...
The perfect fit?
Dear Dan: I’m a 29-year-old straight woman facing a dilemma. I dated this guy about a year ago, and in many ways he was...
Savage Love: Nov. 28, 2023
About ten years ago, I was in a serious relationship with someone I loved more than I had ever loved anyone before. I hoped...
Counseled culture
Dear Dan: Hello! I am a heterosexual man! My wife came out as a lesbian after 30 years of marriage. We have children together...
Cam what may
Dear Dan: I started reading your column when I was a 20-year-old kid. Now I’m an old married lady with 20 years of (more...
Fair shares
Dear Dan: 42-year-old dad here. I’ve been married for 12 years, and my marriage has been somewhat turbulent. But after some affairs—one where my...
What do I tell the stripper?; Bye reader
Dear Dan: My partner and I have been playing with male chastity devices. We’ve been considering going to a strip club while his cock...
Hard truths
Dear Dan: I’m awoman who married young (21) and I’ve been with my husband for seven years. Within the last year, I’ve realized that...
The toll of mental health, using more sop, DTMFA and Dan...
Dear Dan: I’ve been in an on-again, off-again relationship for the past four years. My girlfriend has an assortment of mental-health issues — anxiety,...
Losing out
Dear Dan: I'm a lesbian and my girlfriend is bi. I've read your column and listened to your podcast for a long time, Dan, and...
