Savage Love
Missed connections
Dear Dan: Married guy here. I’m 33, the wife is 31. Our fifth anniversary is next month but we’ve been together for almost eight...
Needs and deeds
Dear Dan: I’m a transgender woman married to a cis woman. Is cuckolding strictly a male-being-humiliated-by-his-woman-partner thing? Or does it apply to all couples?
—Cuckolding...
Savage Love 9/9
Dear Dan: I'm a 35-year-old straight woman living in the Midwest. I was seeing a massage therapist for three years and we became very close...
Catfishing
Dear Dan: I’m a heteroflexible married cis woman in my 40s. I’m also a POS cheater and a catfish. I really fucked up. One...
Calling my one-night stand; Open marriage sharing
Dear Dan:
I’m a cis woman in my late 20s. About three months ago, I had my first one-night stand. I’ve noticed my thoughts...
Why can’t I find a hot, young woman with no baggage?
Dear Dan: I’m 64 years young, a musician, chubby, full head of hair, no Viagra needed, no alcohol, I don’t mind if you drink,...
Savage Love: Dec. 7, 2023
It’s been a month since my great five-year-long relationship ended, and it’s my fault. We were both in our mid-forties, got along and had...
Q&A from the Savage Love Livestream 2
We hosted our second Savage Love Livestream last week and it was a blast. I ran my mouth as fast as I could but...
Love expensed
Dear Dan: I’m a 31-year-old queer person living in Europe. I recently met a 46-year-old man. We were visiting the same city for work...
In the straights
Dear Dan: My wife got drunk at a vacation house we rented with a bunch of friends and cheated on me with my best...
Savage Love 2/10/22
Dear Dan: I’m a 40-year-old bi guy, and I’m really into drinking cum. I say “drinking” and not “swallowing” because I’m talking about glassfuls....
