Savage Love
He’s not your friend…
Dear Dan: I’m a gay male, and one of my good friends has put me in a strange position. The friend has been married...
The no-pandemic challenge
Dear Dan: Your last two columns and your last two podcasts were all about the pandemic. Everything everywhere is all about the pandemic right...
Savage Love: Dec. 7, 2023
It’s been a month since my great five-year-long relationship ended, and it’s my fault. We were both in our mid-forties, got along and had...
Needs and deeds
Dear Dan: I’m a transgender woman married to a cis woman. Is cuckolding strictly a male-being-humiliated-by-his-woman-partner thing? Or does it apply to all couples?
—Cuckolding...
Missed connections
Dear Dan: Married guy here. I’m 33, the wife is 31. Our fifth anniversary is next month but we’ve been together for almost eight...
Savage Love 9/9
Dear Dan: I'm a 35-year-old straight woman living in the Midwest. I was seeing a massage therapist for three years and we became very close...
Calling my one-night stand; Open marriage sharing
Dear Dan:
I’m a cis woman in my late 20s. About three months ago, I had my first one-night stand. I’ve noticed my thoughts...
Q&A from the Savage Love Livestream 2
We hosted our second Savage Love Livestream last week and it was a blast. I ran my mouth as fast as I could but...
Consessions
Dear Dan: I’m a 29-year-old straight male. I’ve been with my 25-year-old partner for six years. I love her and think that we are...
Love expensed
Dear Dan: I’m a 31-year-old queer person living in Europe. I recently met a 46-year-old man. We were visiting the same city for work...