Savage Love
Catfishing
Dear Dan: I’m a heteroflexible married cis woman in my 40s. I’m also a POS cheater and a catfish. I really fucked up. One...
Savage Love 9/9
Dear Dan: I'm a 35-year-old straight woman living in the Midwest. I was seeing a massage therapist for three years and we became very close...
Needs and deeds
Dear Dan: I’m a transgender woman married to a cis woman. Is cuckolding strictly a male-being-humiliated-by-his-woman-partner thing? Or does it apply to all couples?
—Cuckolding...
Calling my one-night stand; Open marriage sharing
Dear Dan:
I’m a cis woman in my late 20s. About three months ago, I had my first one-night stand. I’ve noticed my thoughts...
Why can’t I find a hot, young woman with no baggage?
Dear Dan: I’m 64 years young, a musician, chubby, full head of hair, no Viagra needed, no alcohol, I don’t mind if you drink,...
Love expensed
Dear Dan: I’m a 31-year-old queer person living in Europe. I recently met a 46-year-old man. We were visiting the same city for work...
Savage Love: Dec. 14, 2023
Please help. I saw an old boyfriend today and, based on our text communications about how much he wanted to be with me, I...
Poly wants
Dear Dan: I’m a 25-year-old woman currently in a poly relationship with a married man roughly 20 years my senior. This has by far...
The fine line of rough sex
Dear Dan: I’m your average straight 42-year-old white guy. Married for a little less than a year (second marriage for both). We have an...
Q&A from the Savage Love Livestream 2
We hosted our second Savage Love Livestream last week and it was a blast. I ran my mouth as fast as I could but...
Hard truths
Dear Dan: I’m awoman who married young (21) and I’ve been with my husband for seven years. Within the last year, I’ve realized that...
