Savage Love
The proper etiquette for throwing someone out of an orgy
Dear Dan: I’m a queer girl living with a male partner. This weekend, we found ourselves in an after-hours club, made some new friends,...
Fingering It Out
Dear Dan: I’m a 36-year-old straight guy, happily married for more than 10 years, and a longtime reader. My wife and I are monogamous....
Should I do it?; Wrong hole!
Dear Dan: I’m a virgin in my late 20s. I’m not waiting until marriage, just for the right person. I’ve dated enough and had...
47-year-old virgins, cross-dressing and parents’ sex lives
Dear Dan: I was involved with a straight man who enjoys cross-dressing and taking explicit photos. The problem is that the props he uses...
Savage Love – 1/20
Dear Dan: I’m a straight guy but my whole life I have wanted to be spanked by older men. Does this make any sense?...
Deep cucks
Dear Dan: I am a bi, white, married man — 35 years old and living in a big Midwestern city. I’d like to know...
He’s not your friend…
Dear Dan: I’m a gay male, and one of my good friends has put me in a strange position. The friend has been married...
The daddy files
Dear Dan: I’m a 31-year-old gay man who looks 45. Most men interested in me are surprisingly up-front about expressing their desire to include...
Love the husband over there
This is a preview of this week’s Savage Love. The full version is now exclusively available on Dan’s website Savage.Love.
Dear Dan: I’m a 36-year-old...
Lesbian drama
Dear Dan: One of my very close friends, a lesbian, has been married for a couple of years now. It’s been nothing but drama...
Missed connections
Dear Dan: Married guy here. I’m 33, the wife is 31. Our fifth anniversary is next month but we’ve been together for almost eight...
Cucking dykes
Dear Dan: I’m a lesbian in a long-term relationship. After much conversation with my partner we’ve decided to explore cuckolding role-play together. I’m not...
