Savage Love
Should I do it?; Wrong hole!
Dear Dan: I’m a virgin in my late 20s. I’m not waiting until marriage, just for the right person. I’ve dated enough and had...
The proper etiquette for throwing someone out of an orgy
Dear Dan: I’m a queer girl living with a male partner. This weekend, we found ourselves in an after-hours club, made some new friends,...
Fingering It Out
Dear Dan: I’m a 36-year-old straight guy, happily married for more than 10 years, and a longtime reader. My wife and I are monogamous....
Savage Love – 1/20
Dear Dan: I’m a straight guy but my whole life I have wanted to be spanked by older men. Does this make any sense?...
47-year-old virgins, cross-dressing and parents’ sex lives
Dear Dan: I was involved with a straight man who enjoys cross-dressing and taking explicit photos. The problem is that the props he uses...
The daddy files
Dear Dan: I’m a 31-year-old gay man who looks 45. Most men interested in me are surprisingly up-front about expressing their desire to include...
Deep cucks
Dear Dan: I am a bi, white, married man — 35 years old and living in a big Midwestern city. I’d like to know...
He’s not your friend…
Dear Dan: I’m a gay male, and one of my good friends has put me in a strange position. The friend has been married...
Love the husband over there
This is a preview of this week’s Savage Love. The full version is now exclusively available on Dan’s website Savage.Love.
Dear Dan: I’m a 36-year-old...
Lesbian drama
Dear Dan: One of my very close friends, a lesbian, has been married for a couple of years now. It’s been nothing but drama...
Missed connections
Dear Dan: Married guy here. I’m 33, the wife is 31. Our fifth anniversary is next month but we’ve been together for almost eight...
Cucking dykes
Dear Dan: I’m a lesbian in a long-term relationship. After much conversation with my partner we’ve decided to explore cuckolding role-play together. I’m not...