Savage Love
Dan Savage fills in for Dan Savage — Week 3 (Also:...
DEAR READERS: This is the final week of my summer vacation — but you’ve been getting a new column every week I’ve been gone,...
Savage Love 6/16/22
Dear Dan: My husband and I were at a kink event that required pronouns under scene names. My husband is a cross-dresser and wants...
He wants me; Is that you? Probably is.
Dear Dan: I’m a gay male in my late 20s. My little sister’s husband, “Peter,” is my age and bisexual. I’m not one of those...
Questions from Royal Oak Music Theatre
I visited Royal Oak, Michigan, for Savage Love Live at the Royal Oak Music Theatre. I didn’t get to all of the questions submitted...
Physical ideal
Dear Dan: I don’t listen to your podcast religiously, but as soon as I told my best friend this story, she said, “That’s a...
Runners
Dear Dan: I’ve been with my girlfriend “J” for two years. Her best friend “M” is a gay man she’s known since high school....
Yeasty mouth?; Navigating open relationships
DearDan: My wife and I have a decent sex life. Pretty vanilla, but we’re busy with work, chore, and life in general with two...
What works
Dear Dan: I am a 38-year-old gay man with a serious problem. My boy-friend of five years has developed a strange fascination. We’ve always...
Savage speaks at the “Uninhibited: About Sex” lecture series
I was honored to speak at JCCSF — Jewish Community Center of San Francisco — last week as a part of their “Uninhibited: About...
Connections
Dear Dan: Longtime Savage Love fanboy with a bit of a conundrum — and it’s your fault! I’m a bi man in my 30s....
Case disclosed
Dear Dan: I could really use your advice. I recently found my boyfriend's HIV meds while I was house sitting for him and went...
Committed
Dear Dan: Is it terrible to believe you can still have a truly monogamous and loving relationship with one partner after 20 years? Or...
