Savage Love
Come again
DEAR DAN: I’m a 35-year-old straight woman, recently married, and everything is great. But I have been having problems reaching orgasm. When we first...
A smatter of questions
Last week, I spoke at the Wilbur Theater in Boston and the Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute in Troy, New York. Audience members submitted their questions...
Savage Love 6/16/22
Dear Dan: My husband and I were at a kink event that required pronouns under scene names. My husband is a cross-dresser and wants...
Dan Savage fills in for Dan Savage — Week 3 (Also:...
DEAR READERS: This is the final week of my summer vacation — but you’ve been getting a new column every week I’ve been gone,...
Surprise
Dear Dan: I'm a 24-year-old gay man with a 31-year-old bi boyfriend. I've known since we got together that he's a lot more sexually...
Physical ideal
Dear Dan: I don’t listen to your podcast religiously, but as soon as I told my best friend this story, she said, “That’s a...
Runners
Dear Dan: I’ve been with my girlfriend “J” for two years. Her best friend “M” is a gay man she’s known since high school....
Savage speaks at the “Uninhibited: About Sex” lecture series
I was honored to speak at JCCSF — Jewish Community Center of San Francisco — last week as a part of their “Uninhibited: About...
Connections
Dear Dan: Longtime Savage Love fanboy with a bit of a conundrum — and it’s your fault! I’m a bi man in my 30s....
Questions from Royal Oak Music Theatre
I visited Royal Oak, Michigan, for Savage Love Live at the Royal Oak Music Theatre. I didn’t get to all of the questions submitted...
Fighting words
Dear Dan: I’m 27 years old and I’ve been married to my partner for two years. I’m facing a conundrum: A relative sexually abused...
Taking one for the team?
Dear Dan: I’ve been reading your advice column in the Coast in Halifax for a while, and it seems that most solutions to relationship...









