Savage Love
Yeasty mouth?; Navigating open relationships
DearDan: My wife and I have a decent sex life. Pretty vanilla, but we’re busy with work, chore, and life in general with two...
Oral reports
Dear Dan: I’m a 32-year-old straight guy. My wife and I have been married for four years and together for nine. We have a great...
What works
Dear Dan: I am a 38-year-old gay man with a serious problem. My boy-friend of five years has developed a strange fascination. We’ve always...
Case disclosed
Dear Dan: I could really use your advice. I recently found my boyfriend's HIV meds while I was house sitting for him and went...
Boys come and go but sisters are forever
Dear Dan: I’m a reader in Kansas with two teenage daughters, 16 and 18. My girls recently met a boy where they work and...
He’s bi and that’s ok; The sex could be better
Dear Dan: My BF and I have been dating for two years. He’s 21; I’m 20 (and female). When I noticed my boyfriend wanted...
That professor
Dear Dan: I’m a fortysomething gay male professor at a small college. I try hard not to get attracted to students, and usually succeed....
Husbandry
Dear Dan: I’m a 44-year-old married gay male. I recently found out my 30-year-old husband has been sending dick pics to randoms on Grindr....
Dan keeps it brief
Dear Dan: Are you incapable of concision? Your answers are too long! You blather on, often rehashing the problem (unnecessary!) before giving four words...
Quickies
Dear Dan: I don't want to become one of those people who write to you complaining about how I married someone I wasn't sexually...
Crossed dressers
DEAR DAN: I’m a 22-year-old nonbinary person and I’m debating whether to come out to my father as nonbinary. Complicating things is the fact...
Quickies
Dear Dan: I’m a kinky single woman who keeps attracting the wrong men for me — specifically, submissive guys into face-sitting. I’m submissive myself,...
