Savage Love
Oral reports
Dear Dan: I’m a 32-year-old straight guy. My wife and I have been married for four years and together for nine. We have a great...
Fighting words
Dear Dan: I’m 27 years old and I’ve been married to my partner for two years. I’m facing a conundrum: A relative sexually abused...
Case disclosed
Dear Dan: I could really use your advice. I recently found my boyfriend's HIV meds while I was house sitting for him and went...
Husbandry
Dear Dan: I’m a 44-year-old married gay male. I recently found out my 30-year-old husband has been sending dick pics to randoms on Grindr....
Taking one for the team?
Dear Dan: I’ve been reading your advice column in the Coast in Halifax for a while, and it seems that most solutions to relationship...
What works
Dear Dan: I am a 38-year-old gay man with a serious problem. My boy-friend of five years has developed a strange fascination. We’ve always...
Crossed dressers
DEAR DAN: I’m a 22-year-old nonbinary person and I’m debating whether to come out to my father as nonbinary. Complicating things is the fact...
Finding a play partner; Am I good at it?
Dear Dan: I’m a woman in my late 40s. In my early 20s, I married a much older man. We did all the requisite...
He’s bi and that’s ok; The sex could be better
Dear Dan: My BF and I have been dating for two years. He’s 21; I’m 20 (and female). When I noticed my boyfriend wanted...
Shooting stars
Dear Dan: I’m a cis woman in my mid-40s, and my significant other has a cuckolding fetish. My first response was “Oh, hell no!”...
That professor
Dear Dan: I’m a fortysomething gay male professor at a small college. I try hard not to get attracted to students, and usually succeed....
Crushed
Dear Dan: Married from 28 to 36, single the last three years, and celibate most of the last couple years. The last two years...
