Savage Love
Shooting stars
Dear Dan: I’m a cis woman in my mid-40s, and my significant other has a cuckolding fetish. My first response was “Oh, hell no!”...
Finding a play partner; Am I good at it?
Dear Dan: I’m a woman in my late 40s. In my early 20s, I married a much older man. We did all the requisite...
Stranger things
Dear Dan: I’m a lady considering taking on a foot fetishist as a slave. He would do chores around my house, including cleaning and...
First-time buyer; Peaceful protesting
Dear Dan: Any advice for a first-time sex-toy buyer? I’m looking into vibrators, but I don’t want to spend a bunch of money on...
Crushed
Dear Dan: Married from 28 to 36, single the last three years, and celibate most of the last couple years. The last two years...
Revolution Hall
Savage Love Live stormed into Revolution Hall in Portland, Oregon. Comedian Corina Lucas absolutely killed it before our sold-out crowd, singer-songwriter Elisabeth Pixley-Fink performed...
Dicks deluxe
Dear Dan: A few months ago, I started dating someone. I made it clear early on that I didn’t feel comfortable being in a...
Quickies
Dear Dan: My boyfriend of almost two years is wonderful, and we have had very few issues. But there is one thing that has...
Best wishes
Dear Da: I’m a 43-year-old straight woman, and I spent the majority of my 30s celibate. At 40, I realized that while I wasn’t...
Can I buy your underwear?; More non-PC fantasies
Dear Dan: I’m a 49-year-old gay man. I’ve become friends with a 21-year-old straight guy. He’s really hot. He’s had to drop out of...
Quickies
Dear Dan: I’ve been wondering: Since there are lesbians out there who occasionally crave cock, does the reverse also happen? Are there gay men...
Good things come in small packages
Dear Dan: I’m a 33-year-old straight guy with a small dick. I have a girlfriend of seven years. When we met, I was really...







