Savage Love
Pedestrian AF
Dear Dan: I’m a 37-year-old male. I’ve been with my wife for 15 years. I know that passion transitions in a long-term relationship, but...
Unplugged
Dear Dan: My wife asked me to write to you about our situation. We’ve been married for fifteen years. I am 50 years old...
Married people
Dear Dan: I’m a 38-year-old bi woman who has been sleeping with a married male coworker for the last eight months. We’re a walking...
Double time; What are you committing to?
Dear Dan: My first refractory period — the time it takes me to get ready to have sex again after my first orgasm — is...
He wants me; Is that you? Probably is.
Dear Dan: I’m a gay male in my late 20s. My little sister’s husband, “Peter,” is my age and bisexual. I’m not one of those...
Shake that moody
Dear Dan: I’m a 30-year-old, Asian American, hetero-flexible cis woman. I’m also newly diagnosed with bipolar II. I’m on medication — the doctor is...
Lopsiders
Dear Dan: Bi married man here. I was always out to my wife, but two months ago, I came out to our tight circle...
Shameful
Dear Dan: I’m a 33-year-old man, and for years I’ve practiced edging. Recently I’ve experimented with long-term edges, where I’ll withhold coming for days...
Yeasty mouth?; Navigating open relationships
DearDan: My wife and I have a decent sex life. Pretty vanilla, but we’re busy with work, chore, and life in general with two...
Questions from Royal Oak Music Theatre
I visited Royal Oak, Michigan, for Savage Love Live at the Royal Oak Music Theatre. I didn’t get to all of the questions submitted...
Quickies
Q: I have a quick question about bisexuality. What if one has a preference for dating straight individuals? As a straight woman, I am...
Easy answers
Dear Dan: My girlfriend opposes sex work because she believes it oppresses women. Early in our relationship, she demanded to know if I had...
