Savage Love
A smatter of questions
Last week, I spoke at the Wilbur Theater in Boston and the Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute in Troy, New York. Audience members submitted their questions...
Double time; What are you committing to?
Dear Dan: My first refractory period — the time it takes me to get ready to have sex again after my first orgasm — is...
Redefining sex
Dear Dan: I love my wife, but I have a lot of resentment, disappointment and insecurity over our sex life. After four years of...
He wants me; Is that you? Probably is.
Dear Dan: I’m a gay male in my late 20s. My little sister’s husband, “Peter,” is my age and bisexual. I’m not one of those...
Dan Savage fills in for Dan Savage — Week 3 (Also:...
DEAR READERS: This is the final week of my summer vacation — but you’ve been getting a new column every week I’ve been gone,...
Committed
Dear Dan: Is it terrible to believe you can still have a truly monogamous and loving relationship with one partner after 20 years? Or...
Lopsiders
Dear Dan: Bi married man here. I was always out to my wife, but two months ago, I came out to our tight circle...
Savage speaks at the “Uninhibited: About Sex” lecture series
I was honored to speak at JCCSF — Jewish Community Center of San Francisco — last week as a part of their “Uninhibited: About...
Emotional arsonists
Dear Dan: I'm a 19-year-old girl who was dumped a few months ago. My partner found out he didn't like my body when we...
Quickies
Q: I have a quick question about bisexuality. What if one has a preference for dating straight individuals? As a straight woman, I am...
Quickies
Dear Dan: My fiancé and I have been in a relationship for 11 years. His best friend is one of his exes, and that...
Questions from Royal Oak Music Theatre
I visited Royal Oak, Michigan, for Savage Love Live at the Royal Oak Music Theatre. I didn’t get to all of the questions submitted...
