Savage Love
Clap Back
Dear Dan: Bisexual female in an open/monogamish relationship with a heterosexual male. My partner and I have some friends in the swinging lifestyle that...
Pedestrian AF
Dear Dan: I’m a 37-year-old male. I’ve been with my wife for 15 years. I know that passion transitions in a long-term relationship, but...
Short and sweet
Dear Dan: My partner has a hard time dealing with the fact that, before him, I had several casual flings and one-night stands. It...
What works
Dear Dan: I am a 38-year-old gay man with a serious problem. My boy-friend of five years has developed a strange fascination. We’ve always...
Come again
DEAR DAN: I’m a 35-year-old straight woman, recently married, and everything is great. But I have been having problems reaching orgasm. When we first...
Friends In Deed
Dear Dan: I'm a 20-something more-or-less lesbian in an East Coast city. I'm primarily into women, and I'm only interested in relationships with women,...
Case disclosed
Dear Dan: I could really use your advice. I recently found my boyfriend's HIV meds while I was house sitting for him and went...
How do I explain my politically incorrect fantasy?
Dear Dan: I am a twentysomething, straight, cis-female expat. How long do I have to wait to ask my German lover, who is übersensitive...
Emotional arsonists
Dear Dan: I'm a 19-year-old girl who was dumped a few months ago. My partner found out he didn't like my body when we...
Yeasty mouth?; Navigating open relationships
DearDan: My wife and I have a decent sex life. Pretty vanilla, but we’re busy with work, chore, and life in general with two...
