Savage Love
Quick and dirty Q&A
My laptop died last week. My laptop couldn’t die when I was in the office, with capable tech support people close by. Oh, no....
Bloody business
Dear Dan: I am a 60-year-old heterosexual man, and I am being told that I’m normal. I have been to several urologists, and they...
Shake that moody
Dear Dan: I’m a 30-year-old, Asian American, hetero-flexible cis woman. I’m also newly diagnosed with bipolar II. I’m on medication — the doctor is...
THIS
Dear Dan: I am a 29-year-old woman and I have a problem when I have sex or masturbate. I always feel an annoying pain, a...
Quickies
Dear Dan: My fiancé and I have been in a relationship for 11 years. His best friend is one of his exes, and that...
Pedestrian AF
Dear Dan: I’m a 37-year-old male. I’ve been with my wife for 15 years. I know that passion transitions in a long-term relationship, but...
Quickies
Dear Dan: I'm a 35-year-old woman. I recently discovered I'm a size queen. (Is it OK for me to use this term?) This has...
Short and sweet
Dear Dan: My partner has a hard time dealing with the fact that, before him, I had several casual flings and one-night stands. It...
Redefining sex
Dear Dan: I love my wife, but I have a lot of resentment, disappointment and insecurity over our sex life. After four years of...
Double time; What are you committing to?
Dear Dan: My first refractory period — the time it takes me to get ready to have sex again after my first orgasm — is...
Not without guilt
Dear Dan: A man impregnated me about a month into our relationship. He is adamantly against having the kid, as it’s too soon. I...
Lopsiders
Dear Dan: Bi married man here. I was always out to my wife, but two months ago, I came out to our tight circle...
