Savage Love
Unplugged
Dear Dan: My wife asked me to write to you about our situation. We’ve been married for fifteen years. I am 50 years old...
Habitual cheater?; I said no; Thirsty in a small town
Dear Dan: I am currently separated. A few months after I moved out, my estranged wife found out that I cheated on her before...
Savage love 5/19/22
Dear Dan: I am a 37-year-old heterosexual woman in a monogamous relationship with a het cis male. Let’s call him “Rick.” We’ve been together...
The doll
Dear Dan: I am a 56-year-heterosexual man, and I have lived with ALS for the past six years. I am either in a wheelchair...
Not your rodeo
Dear Dan: My boyfriend of eight months, K, and I are polyamorous. We started the relationship on that foot, and for a while I...
Should I cheat?; Queer peg in a straight hole
Dear Dan: I am a fortysomething bi woman happily married to a newly transitioned 50ish trans woman. I have a history of putting myself...
Quickies
Dear Dan: I'm a 35-year-old woman. I recently discovered I'm a size queen. (Is it OK for me to use this term?) This has...
Orpheum theater
I was honored to appear with Esther Perel at the Orpheum Theater in Vancouver, BC, a few weeks ago to discuss her new book,...
Double time; What are you committing to?
Dear Dan: My first refractory period — the time it takes me to get ready to have sex again after my first orgasm — is...
Friends In Deed
Dear Dan: I'm a 20-something more-or-less lesbian in an East Coast city. I'm primarily into women, and I'm only interested in relationships with women,...
Quickies
Dear Dan: My fiancé and I have been in a relationship for 11 years. His best friend is one of his exes, and that...
Quick and dirty Q&A
My laptop died last week. My laptop couldn’t die when I was in the office, with capable tech support people close by. Oh, no....
