Savage Love
What is love, part II
Dear Dan: My boyfriend of 1.5 years shared (several months into dating) that he has a fantasy of having a threesome. I shared that...
Crossed off
Dear Dan: I’m a 35-year-old bisexual man in a LTR with a man. My question, however, has to do with my parents. As an...
Quickies
Dear Dan: My boyfriend and I have not had sex for more than two years. When I first asked him about it, he hemmed...
We’re rooting for you
Dear Dan: I’m almost 30 and I’m a virgin. I’m an overweight, straight-ish guy (I’m attracted to a few men, but those cases are...
Habitual cheater?; I said no; Thirsty in a small town
Dear Dan: I am currently separated. A few months after I moved out, my estranged wife found out that I cheated on her before...
Clap Back
Dear Dan: Bisexual female in an open/monogamish relationship with a heterosexual male. My partner and I have some friends in the swinging lifestyle that...
Bloody business
Dear Dan: I am a 60-year-old heterosexual man, and I am being told that I’m normal. I have been to several urologists, and they...
Q&A at the Savage Lovecast
I had a great time at the live taping of the Savage Lovecast at Chicago’s Music Box Theatre. Audience members submitted questions on cards,...
Pound for pound
This is a preview of this week’s Savage Love. The full version is now exclusively available on Dan’s website Savage.Love.
Dear Dan: A friend hooked...
Dan Savage fills in for Dan Savage
DEAR READERS: I’m on vacation for the next three weeks — but you won’t be reading old columns while I’m away. You’ll be getting...
Quick and dirty Q&A
My laptop died last week. My laptop couldn’t die when I was in the office, with capable tech support people close by. Oh, no....
Fresh starts
Dear Dan: I am newly divorced and have started a relationship with a man I’ve known and deeply cared about for decades. The sex...
