Savage Love
It it me?; Anti-climax; She cheated, not me; My new gay...
Dear Dan: I’m a single gay male in my 40s. I have a good life and do good work. I’m not worried about finding...
Finding non-creeps for fantasy play
Dear Dan: I’m a 27-year-old, feminist, conventionally attractive, straightish, GGG woman. Over time, my tastes have changed, and now I find myself more of...
Private dungeon session?; Mismatched schedule; Bigioted inlaws
Dear Dan: My boyfriend wants to visit a private gay sex dungeon in Europe this summer but we only want to play with each...
Tie points
Dear Dan: I’m a single gay guy in my late 30s. I’m quite introverted and a bit shy, yet I have a big sexual...
Prejudicial statements
Dear Dan: I’m a man from a very liberal background. Recently, a girl I started dating — a girl from a similar background —...
Blinders
Dear Dan: Here goes: I’m a 32-year-old gay male and I have trouble staying out of my head during sex. I feel like there may...
Not without guilt
Dear Dan: A man impregnated me about a month into our relationship. He is adamantly against having the kid, as it’s too soon. I...
Quickies
Dear Dan: My ex-girlfriend, who I dated for nine months, called me two months after we broke up and accused me of giving her...
Living your truth
Dear Dan: Living my truth permits others in my fairly conservative circles — Christian family struggling to accept a gay son, colleagues in a...
Devastation
Dear Dan: I’m a straight man in a live-in relationship with a beautiful woman. There are no sparks in bed, and it’s been more...
Quickies
Dear Dan: My boyfriend and I have not had sex for more than two years. When I first asked him about it, he hemmed...
Slight Christmas
Dear Dan: How can I explain to my sisters that although I am a free sexual woman, I still prefer men as sexual partners?...
