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Come the revolution
Dear Dan: I’m a straight woman and have been sexually active for about six years. I’m in my mid-20s now and about ready to...
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Dear Dan: My girlfriend can’t use hormonal birth control and “doesn’t like” condoms but wants sex. What would you do? — Paternal Anxiety Upsetting Sexual Escapades...
Schooled me once
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Dear Dan: I’m a 38-year-old cis het woman who...
The phone job
Dear Dan: A male friend — not my best friend but a close one — told me his wife was really attracted to me,...
Savage Love | Week of July 4, 2013
Dear Dan: I’m a 24-year-old woman who just ended a five-year relationship. It sucked. I cried. It was my first breakup, so I’ve felt totally insane for the last three months. Now I’m in the dating world, and I go out with people only to find that we have no physical ...
Savage Love: Dec. 14, 2023
Please help. I saw an old boyfriend today and, based on our text communications about how much he wanted to be with me, I...
Fighting words
Dear Dan: I’m 27 years old and I’ve been married to my partner for two years. I’m facing a conundrum: A relative sexually abused...
Savage Love
Q: I’m a 40-year-old female, cis-het. I have very discerning tastes in men, and always end up alone. Any way to be more open...
Panties; Jealous; Butt plugs; Porn
Dear Dan: A woman I follow on Instagram — whose account is open for all to follow — shares highly sexualized images of herself...
Shafted
Dear Dan: I’m a European heterosexual girl and reading your column from afar has been a good way for me to better know the...
Don’t do a Nazi
Dear Dan: I’m a woman in my early 30s having sex with a guy in his early 20s. The sex is more than casual,...
Committed
Dear Dan: Is it terrible to believe you can still have a truly monogamous and loving relationship with one partner after 20 years? Or...










