Savage Love
Quickies
Dear Dan: This woman has gone down on me (I’m a man) more than half a dozen times in the last three months. Each...
Done wrong
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Dear Dan: I’m a gay Black man in my...
The liked boys
Dear Dan: My best friend’s father is an avid user of social media. He’s retired and spends most of his day posting memes on...
Amazed and confused
Dear Dan: I’ve been with the same amazing man a dozen years. We’ve had our ups and our downs, same as any other couple,...
Holing Up
Dear Dan: My husband and I got married in August of 2019 and we were together for over five years before getting married. I’m...
Queer quickies
Dear Dan: I just attended the nauseating wedding of my 30-year-old niece to her boyfriend of several years. Both of them seem as gay as...
No cheating, just vomit.
Dear Dan: I’ve been aware of my emetophilia since a very young age and have always kept it private. No need to tell me...
Not your rodeo
Dear Dan: My boyfriend of eight months, K, and I are polyamorous. We started the relationship on that foot, and for a while I...
Savage Love | Week of June 27, 2013
Dear Dan: I am a married 54-yearold postmenopausal woman. My libido has diminished significantly, and it takes me much longer to climax. My husband gets tired sooner and is unable to maintain an erection as long as he used to; this makes it even more difficult for me...
Husbandry
Dear Dan: I’m a 44-year-old married gay male. I recently found out my 30-year-old husband has been sending dick pics to randoms on Grindr....
SAVAGE LOVE
DEAR READERS: Two weeks ago, I announced I would be taking a nice long break from questions about miserable sexless marriages. (I don’t get questions about happily sexless marriages.) I tossed out my standard line of advice to those who’ve exhausted medical, ...
Thrown bones
Dear Dan: I’m 20, straight, male, fit, and active. I masturbated prone — flat on my stomach — for years. I’ve now changed to...










