Savage Love

Dear Dan: I am a 34-year-old straight woman. I’m monogamous and have an avoidant attachment style. I’ve been seeing a guy I really like....

Dear Dan: I'm a 30-year-old straight woman in a three-year relationship with my live-in partner, who is also 30. I love him and he...

Dear Dan: I’m a gay male, and one of my good friends has put me in a strange position. The friend has been married...

Dear Dan: I’m an old guy, fast approaching geezerdom. After 45 years of marriage to the same woman, the sex has fallen off to zero. We otherwise have a great and comfortable relationship. If I want any at all these days, the only options are masturbation or ...

There is more to this week’s Savage Love. To read the entire column, go to Savage.Love.  Dear Dan: I’m a gay Black man in my...

Dear Dan: I’ve been with my boyfriend for a few months. Prior to dating, I was clear with him that I would need to...

Dear Dan: I’m a 29-year-old straight male. I’ve been with my 25-year-old partner for six years. I love her and think that we are...

Dear Dan: Is it a super douchey move to pretend to be a lesbian to avoid unwanted male attention? I’m a straight single woman...

Dear Dan: Twenty-one-year-old female here. When we were both 14, my first boyfriend took advantage of me. I wanted to explore my sexuality a little, but things went further than I wanted...

Dear Dan: I’m a woman who recently went out on a third date with a man. I invited him back to my place and...

Dear Dan: I’m an 18-year-old cis hetero girl from Australia and I’ve been listening to your podcast and reading your column since I...

Dear Dan: I’m your average straight 42-year-old white guy. Married for a little less than a year (second marriage for both). We have an...