Savage Love

Dear Dan: I’m a single gay male in my 40s. I have a good life and do good work. I’m not worried about finding...

Dear Dan: Straight male, 48, married 14 years, three kids under age 10. Needless to say, life is busy at our house. My wife...

Dear Dan: I was combing through some old columns/podcasts and came upon a few instances where you counseled women on selling their used underwear online. So I was wondering: Is this particular kink strictly limited to straight guys looking for ladies’ panties? Or is ...

Dear Dan: I’m a lady considering taking on a foot fetishist as a slave. He would do chores around my house, including cleaning and...

We hosted our second Savage Love Livestream last week and it was a blast. I ran my mouth as fast as I could but...

Dear Dan: Straight guy here in a one-sided open relationship. My wife and I opened our relationship just for her and to females only,...

Dear Dan: One of my very close friends, a lesbian, has been married for a couple of years now. It’s been nothing but drama...

Dear Dan: I’m a single gay guy in my late 30s. I’m quite introverted and a bit shy, yet I have a big sexual...

Dear Dan: My wife asked me to write to you about our situation. We’ve been married for fifteen years. I am 50 years old...

I’m a cis bi woman, and I mainly have sex with people with penises. I have a really gross problem, sorry. It’s been an...

Dear Dan: I’m a 29-year-old man who desires a monogamous relationship. I’m currently in an LTR with a 29-year-old woman. Despite my feelings about...

Dear Dan: I’m a fortysomething gay male professor at a small college. I try hard not to get attracted to students, and usually succeed....