Savage Love
Lost kinkster
Dear Dan: My new partner is a swinger. Being GGG, I said, sure, we can go to swinger parties, even though I have often...
Savage Love 6/30/22
(Weekly deadlines being what they are, this column was written before the Supreme Court overturned Roe v. Wade.)
We knew this was coming, thanks to...
The phone job
Dear Dan: A male friend — not my best friend but a close one — told me his wife was really attracted to me,...
Tall order
Dear Dan: I'm a cis male in my late 20s. I've recently become consumed by a specific fantasy I fear is unattainable, a fear...
Breaking up
Dear Dan: I’m a thirtysomething straight woman married for 16 years. Eighteen months ago, I met a man and there was an immediate attraction....
Blown away
Dear Dan: I’m a straight guy in a LTR with a bi woman. We recently had a threesome with a bi male acquaintance. We...
The mourning after in America
Dear Dan: I’m a longtime fan — reader and listener — and part of the 47 percent of white women who did NOT vote...
Thrown bones
Dear Dan: I’m 20, straight, male, fit, and active. I masturbated prone — flat on my stomach — for years. I’ve now changed to...
It’s bad
Dear Dan: I’m a 22-year-old straight male dating a 23-year-old woman. This is by far the most sexual relationship I’ve been in, which is...
Twitter taboo; Looking for hope
Dear Dan: I recently synced my phone contacts to my Twitter account. When I was scrolling through the list of people who turned up...
Pride and preference
I’m taking a week off, so this week’s “Savage Love” is a reprint of a column that was originally published on January 13, 2016....
Quickies
Dear Dan: I have a question about porn, and I can’t think who else I can ask that will give me an intelligent, educated...
