Savage Love
Cum again
Dear Dan: As you can see by my signature, Dan, I’m a linguist. On your podcast you frequently ask researchers “whatchyougot” on all kinds...
Toy boy
Dear Dan: I’m positive you’ve written something about this in the past. I have searched your archives but have only managed to find people...
Quickies
Dear Dan: I’m a woman who recently went out on a third date with a man. I invited him back to my place and...
The phone job
Dear Dan: A male friend — not my best friend but a close one — told me his wife was really attracted to me,...
Quickies
Dear Dan: I’ve been with my boyfriend for a few months. Prior to dating, I was clear with him that I would need to...
Switched on
Dear Dan: You’ve said that everyone is entitled to a “zone of erotic autonomy.” I was wondering if you thought that “zone” extends to...
Quickies
DEAR READERS: I live in Seattle, the U.S. epicenter of the novel coronavirus epidemic, with my family. A lot of my readers wrote this...
Choking hazard
Dear Dan: I'm a 29-year-old straight woman in Pennsylvania. My question is to do with choking and consent. I've had two experiences in the past...
Tall order
Dear Dan: I'm a cis male in my late 20s. I've recently become consumed by a specific fantasy I fear is unattainable, a fear...
Pissy
Dear Dan: I like watersports, and I heard about a guy in a rural area who holds piss parties in his backyard. I found...
Quickies
Dear Dan: I was dumped in August by a guy I was seeing for 10 months. He told me that he wants to work...
Pride and preference
I’m taking a week off, so this week’s “Savage Love” is a reprint of a column that was originally published on January 13, 2016....
