Savage Love
The phone job
Dear Dan: A male friend — not my best friend but a close one — told me his wife was really attracted to me,...
Quickies
Dear
Dan: My little dick has always held me
back. I didn’t date in high school because I couldn’t stand the thought of girls
discussing my tiny...
Blown away
Dear Dan: I’m a straight guy in a LTR with a bi woman. We recently had a threesome with a bi male acquaintance. We...
Choking hazard
Dear Dan: I'm a 29-year-old straight woman in Pennsylvania. My question is to do with choking and consent. I've had two experiences in the past...
Women and men
Dear Dan: I’m a woman in an open relationship of four years. I adore my partner. When we were first dating, it was casual...
Breaking up
Dear Dan: I’m a thirtysomething straight woman married for 16 years. Eighteen months ago, I met a man and there was an immediate attraction....
Shafted
Dear Dan: I’m a European heterosexual girl and reading your column from afar has been a good way for me to better know the...
Quickies
Dear Dan: This woman has gone down on me (I’m a man) more than half a dozen times in the last three months. Each...
Twitter taboo; Looking for hope
Dear Dan: I recently synced my phone contacts to my Twitter account. When I was scrolling through the list of people who turned up...
Thrown bones
Dear Dan: I’m 20, straight, male, fit, and active. I masturbated prone — flat on my stomach — for years. I’ve now changed to...









