Savage Love

Dear Dan: How does one get into the gay BDSM bottoming and leather scene? —  Seeking Answers Concerning Kink Dear SACK: One shows up, SACK. “Eighty...

Dear Dan: I’ve been aware of my emetophilia since a very young age and have always kept it private. No need to tell me...

Dear Dan: My boyfriend wants to visit a private gay sex dungeon in Europe this summer but we only want to play with each...

Dear Dan: I’m a cute, mostly straight, twentysomething, single and (safely) sexually active woman. This happens to me pretty often: I hook up with a guy, we start fooling around, and we’re both really into it. I reach down, and he’s full sail. Things progress — ...

Dear Dan: I’m having a problem advising a friend. She’s been through a divorce and now the breaking off of an engagement. To put...

Dear Dan: My father is 65 years old and has been a devoted husband to my mother who has been battling a medical condition for the past 30 years — a condition that prevents her from engaging in sexual activity of any kind. He has not had sex in all this time and is ...

Dear Dan: I don’t listen to your podcast religiously, but as soon as I told my best friend this story, she said, “That’s a...

Dear Dan: Something is bothering me and I don’t know where else to turn. I’m a bisexual man. I’ve been married to a great...

Dear Dan: I’m a 40-something gay male. I’m single and cannot get a date or even a hookup. I’m short, overweight, average-looking and bald....

Dear Dan: A woman I follow on Instagram — whose account is open for all to follow — shares highly sexualized images of herself...

I’m taking a week off, so this week’s “Savage Love” is a reprint of a column that was originally published on January 13, 2016....

Dear Dan: Here’s the Reader’s Digest Condensed Version: I’m a sexually inactive (by my own choice) heterosexual female in my late 40s who up until recently used to be much heavier and in rapidly declining health. Since my type 2 diabetes diagnosis, I have achieved ...