Savage Love
Is a diaper fetish always sexual?
Dear Dan: I’ve been dating a nice guy for a month or so. Sex is good, and we’re faulty compatible in other ways, too....
Living your truth
Dear Dan: Living my truth permits others in my fairly conservative circles — Christian family struggling to accept a gay son, colleagues in a...
Outer limits
Dear Dan: I’m a gay guy in my late 40s with a straight sister in her early 50s. She’s been married for a bit...
Hard feelings
Dear Dan: I keep running into the same issue with my best friend of five years. (She’s also my maid of honor at my...
Done wrong
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Dear Dan: I’m a gay Black man in my...
Savage Love
Q: I’m a 40-year-old female, cis-het. I have very discerning tastes in men, and always end up alone. Any way to be more open...
Savage Love: Dec. 14, 2023
Please help. I saw an old boyfriend today and, based on our text communications about how much he wanted to be with me, I...
Savage Love 6/30/22
(Weekly deadlines being what they are, this column was written before the Supreme Court overturned Roe v. Wade.)
We knew this was coming, thanks to...
Fantasy figures
Dear Dan: I’ve been married for 30 years to the same man. I have dealt with his tantrums, his screaming, and his fits. He’s...
Boundaries
Dear Dan: My son has always liked handcuffs and tying people up as a form of play. He is 12 now, and the delight...
Baggage
Dear Dan: You ran a letter about a gay man (“Sam”) who has been sucking off his straight friend. Sam said he’s never done...
The epidemic of gay lonliness
Dear Dan: I’m a 40-something gay male. I’m single and cannot get a date or even a hookup. I’m short, overweight, average-looking and bald....
