Savage Love
Parental controls
Dead Dan: My father passed away suddenly. I had a very idyllic childhood and was close to my father and my mother (who is...
Breaking up
Dear Dan: I’m a thirtysomething straight woman married for 16 years. Eighteen months ago, I met a man and there was an immediate attraction....
The Man Show
Dear Dan: I am male. A close female friend was raped by
an old acquaintance of mine. I knew this guy when we were tweens,...
Part and parting
Dear Dan: I’m an adult man, and I have developed a trans attraction after following a particular Tumblr blog. That blog is now gone,...
Quickies
Dear Dan: This woman has gone down on me (I’m a man) more than half a dozen times in the last three months. Each...
Quickies
Dear Dan: I had a stroke a year ago. The woman I was dating at the time stepped away. I have no hard feelings...
Lesborama
Dear Dan: I am a 38-year-old lesbian, very femme, very out. I have a coworker I can’t figure out. We’ve worked together for a...
Pandemic pressures
Dear Dan: I'm a gay guy living in New York in his late twenties. My boyfriend has really been emotionally impacted by the pandemic...
Women and men
Dear Dan: I’m a woman in an open relationship of four years. I adore my partner. When we were first dating, it was casual...
It’s bad
Dear Dan: I’m a 22-year-old straight male dating a 23-year-old woman. This is by far the most sexual relationship I’ve been in, which is...
Bluff calls
Dear Dan: I’m a heterosexual cis woman in a monogamous marriage. My husband and I have always struggled to connect sexually, mostly because he...
Legal docs and sex play; The solvable problem
Dear Dan: I have two female sex partners who want to be breath-play dominated. I know the practice is dangerous, and I employ the...
