Savage Love
It’s bad
Dear Dan: I’m a 22-year-old straight male dating a 23-year-old woman. This is by far the most sexual relationship I’ve been in, which is...
Savage Love 6/30/22
(Weekly deadlines being what they are, this column was written before the Supreme Court overturned Roe v. Wade.)
We knew this was coming, thanks to...
The doll
Dear Dan: I am a 56-year-heterosexual man, and I have lived with ALS for the past six years. I am either in a wheelchair...
The mourning after in America
Dear Dan: I’m a longtime fan — reader and listener — and part of the 47 percent of white women who did NOT vote...
Part and parting
Dear Dan: I’m an adult man, and I have developed a trans attraction after following a particular Tumblr blog. That blog is now gone,...
Better after
Dear Dan: In a recent column, you said you never hear from married couples whose sex life got better and more frequent over the...
Talkin’ ’bout porn
Dear Dan: I’m an 18-year-old cis hetero girl from Australia and I’ve been listening to your podcast and reading your column since I...
Bottoming out
Dear Dan: I’m a 29-year-old gay man living in California. Why are most tops such assholes? I have had plenty of sexual partners ranging...
Legal docs and sex play; The solvable problem
Dear Dan: I have two female sex partners who want to be breath-play dominated. I know the practice is dangerous, and I employ the...
The Man Show
Dear Dan: I am male. A close female friend was raped by
an old acquaintance of mine. I knew this guy when we were tweens,...
Neurodiverse
Dear Dan: As a 36-year-old straight woman with autism, I am often misidentified as lesbian because my social signaling must read as masculine. I...
Boundaries
Dear Dan: My son has always liked handcuffs and tying people up as a form of play. He is 12 now, and the delight...
