Savage Love
It’s bad
Dear Dan: I’m a 22-year-old straight male dating a 23-year-old woman. This is by far the most sexual relationship I’ve been in, which is...
Mother love
Dear Dan: I’m an old guy, 68 years old to be exact. (Also a Scorpio, if that matters.) I’ve always been a pretty horny...
Twitter taboo; Looking for hope
Dear Dan: I recently synced my phone contacts to my Twitter account. When I was scrolling through the list of people who turned up...
Cutting remarks
Dear Dan: I’m having a problem advising a friend. She’s been through a divorce and now the breaking off of an engagement. To put...
Talkin’ ’bout porn
Dear Dan: I’m an 18-year-old cis hetero girl from Australia and I’ve been listening to your podcast and reading your column since I...
Three city swing
We brought Savage Love Live to the Music Box Theatre in Chicago, the Barrymore Theatre in Madison, and the Pantages Theatre in Minneapolis over...
The Man Show
Dear Dan: I am male. A close female friend was raped by
an old acquaintance of mine. I knew this guy when we were tweens,...
Pandemic pressures
Dear Dan: I'm a gay guy living in New York in his late twenties. My boyfriend has really been emotionally impacted by the pandemic...
Breaking up
Dear Dan: I’m a thirtysomething straight woman married for 16 years. Eighteen months ago, I met a man and there was an immediate attraction....
What ain’t broke
Dear Dan: I’ve been spending a lot of time lately thinking about myself and my sexuality and my romantic self. I can log on...
Retroactive blessings
Dear Dan: Without snooping, I came across texts between my wife “Mary” and a guy “Jeremy” of a very sexual nature. While I would...
Legal docs and sex play; The solvable problem
Dear Dan: I have two female sex partners who want to be breath-play dominated. I know the practice is dangerous, and I employ the...
