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The Euro Zone
Dear Dan: We’re a happily married couple from Europe, longtime readers, both in our 30s, and both interested in having sex sometimes with other...
Dumplings
Dear Dan I’ve been living with my boyfriend for a year. We met on FetLife and I was honest about being in an open...
Quickies
Dear Dan: I had a stroke a year ago. The woman I was dating at the time stepped away. I have no hard feelings...
Shafted
Dear Dan: I’m a European heterosexual girl and reading your column from afar has been a good way for me to better know the...
Dramatis Personae
Dear Dan: I’m someone who does gay porn for a living. How do people who do gay porn meet someone who doesn’t just sexualize...
Switched on
Dear Dan: You’ve said that everyone is entitled to a “zone of erotic autonomy.” I was wondering if you thought that “zone” extends to...
Quickies
Q: I have a quick question about bisexuality. What if one has a preference for dating straight individuals? As a straight woman, I am...
Numb and numbered
Dear Dan: I'm a cis bi guy in my 40s who doesn’t have a lot of experience with other men. I'm happily married to...
Letter rip
Dear Dan: I’m a female in my late 20s. I broke up with a toxic ex about a year ago and I’ve been walking...
Consessions
Dear Dan: I’m a 29-year-old straight male. I’ve been with my 25-year-old partner for six years. I love her and think that we are...
Fuck around and find out
Dear Dan: I've been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years and we have a great relationship — or so I thought. Last week, I...
Savage livestream
I want to thank everyone who attended our third Savage Love Livestream last Saturday night. Mistress Matisse was our very special guest and we...
