Savage Love
It it me?; Anti-climax; She cheated, not me; My new gay...
Dear Dan: I’m a single gay male in my 40s. I have a good life and do good work. I’m not worried about finding...
Panties; Jealous; Butt plugs; Porn
Dear Dan: A woman I follow on Instagram — whose account is open for all to follow — shares highly sexualized images of herself...
My sex life is great, but… ; Gay cucks
Dear Dan: My husband and I have a pretty good sex life considering we are raising three kids, we both work full time, and...
Cornhole; The perfect match; In need of a therapist
Dear Dan: What are your favorite uses for the butt plug besides putting it in your own butt or someone else’s butt?
— Fun Faggy...
Dan Savage fills in for Dan Savage — Week 3 (Also:...
DEAR READERS: This is the final week of my summer vacation — but you’ve been getting a new column every week I’ve been gone,...
Dan Savage fills in for Dan Savage — Week 2
Dear Readers: I’m on vacation for three weeks—but you won’t be reading old columns in my absence, and you won’t be reading columns by...
Dan Savage fills in for Dan Savage
DEAR READERS: I’m on vacation for the next three weeks — but you won’t be reading old columns while I’m away. You’ll be getting...
Habitual cheater?; I said no; Thirsty in a small town
Dear Dan: I am currently separated. A few months after I moved out, my estranged wife found out that I cheated on her before...
Do I tell him I’m intersex? Depends.
Dear Dan: I’m 28 years old and live in the Midwest. I’m intersex, but I identify as female. I am not out about being...
He wants me; Is that you? Probably is.
Dear Dan: I’m a gay male in my late 20s. My little sister’s husband, “Peter,” is my age and bisexual. I’m not one of those...
Double time; What are you committing to?
Dear Dan: My first refractory period — the time it takes me to get ready to have sex again after my first orgasm — is...
Calling my one-night stand; Open marriage sharing
Dear Dan:
I’m a cis woman in my late 20s. About three months ago, I had my first one-night stand. I’ve noticed my thoughts...
