Savage Love
Q&A from the Savage Love Livestream 2
We hosted our second Savage Love Livestream last week and it was a blast. I ran my mouth as fast as I could but...
Gay dream believer
Dear Dan: I'm wondering if you can help me with some dream interpretation. If it helps for context, I'm a single 29-year-old gay man....
The casserole
Dear Dan: Something is bothering me and I don’t know where else to turn. I’m a bisexual man. I’ve been married to a great...
Losing out
Dear Dan: I'm a lesbian and my girlfriend is bi. I've read your column and listened to your podcast for a long time, Dan, and...
Blocked
Dear Dan: My boyfriend and I were friends for a couple of years (we're both 30-year-old gay men), then I stopped traveling around the...
Add it up
Dear Dan: I’ve always been excited by BDSM but I’ve only minimally explored this side of myself until very recently. I’m a straight woman...
Four play
Dear Dan: Why are threesomes much more accepted in the popular imagination than foursomes? I was just googling "finding foursomes" and the first result is...
Old times
Dear Dan: I’m a nearly-80 straight male, with undiminished libido. I have no problem with it, just a persistent curiosity. Like, why now? And...
Jealous typologies
Dear Dan: I’ve been in a relationship with a wonderful guy for the past year. The only problem is that he works with a...
Don’t give up
Dear Dan: Borrowing Gen Z's love for labeling everything, I'm a 46-year-old homoromantic asexual Canadian faggot. For me that means I'd like to love...
Direct messages
Dead Dan: My husband recently passed away. He was a wonderful person and we had twelve great 12 together. He was also very, very...
Quickies
Dear Dan: I was dumped in August by a guy I was seeing for 10 months. He told me that he wants to work...
