Savage Love
Sorry dude, I’m a ‘lesbian;’ Worried about my stripper friend
Dear Dan: Is it a super douchey move to pretend to be a lesbian to avoid unwanted male attention? I’m a straight single woman...
Twitter taboo; Looking for hope
Dear Dan: I recently synced my phone contacts to my Twitter account. When I was scrolling through the list of people who turned up...
Is a diaper fetish always sexual?
Dear Dan: I’ve been dating a nice guy for a month or so. Sex is good, and we’re faulty compatible in other ways, too....
Good things come in small packages
Dear Dan: I’m a 33-year-old straight guy with a small dick. I have a girlfriend of seven years. When we met, I was really...
Sanitized meeting stories; Bad advice, Dan
Dear Dan: If I first met someone on a hookup site or at a sex party and then we start seeing each other, what’s...
Should I cheat?; Queer peg in a straight hole
Dear Dan: I am a fortysomething bi woman happily married to a newly transitioned 50ish trans woman. I have a history of putting myself...
Giving back for all the porn; Inappropriate dad jokes
Dear Dan: Over the years, I have consumed what I believe to be an average amount of porn for a 44-year-old hetero guy. I...
Sex life dud; Bi guy woes
Dear Dan: Straight male, 48, married 14 years, three kids under age 10. Needless to say, life is busy at our house. My wife...
Should I do it?; Wrong hole!
Dear Dan: I’m a virgin in my late 20s. I’m not waiting until marriage, just for the right person. I’ve dated enough and had...
Mind your business; De-Fox-Newsing
Dear Dan: I have a friend who is getting married. She’s cheated on every guy she’s been with, including her last three husbands. This...
No cheating, just vomit.
Dear Dan: I’ve been aware of my emetophilia since a very young age and have always kept it private. No need to tell me...
Can I buy your underwear?; More non-PC fantasies
Dear Dan: I’m a 49-year-old gay man. I’ve become friends with a 21-year-old straight guy. He’s really hot. He’s had to drop out of...
