Savage Love
Getting back in the gay groove
Dear Dan: I’m a 37-year-old gay man who just got out of an abusive relationship. We were together five years, moved to Portland together,...
Quickies
Dear Dan: My boyfriend of almost two years is wonderful, and we have had very few issues. But there is one thing that has...
First-time buyer; Peaceful protesting
Dear Dan: Any advice for a first-time sex-toy buyer? I’m looking into vibrators, but I don’t want to spend a bunch of money on...
The mourning after in America
Dear Dan: I’m a longtime fan — reader and listener — and part of the 47 percent of white women who did NOT vote...
One two many Erins?
Dear Dan: I am a bi man in my late 20s in a poly relationship. My primary partner’s name is Erin. One of the...
To have and to cuck
Dear Dan: My ex-three-exes-ago was a cuckold. I swore I would never date another cuckold after he blew up at me for not cheating...
The Trump Talk
Dear Dan: Waiting to pay for my groceries at the market this evening, this guy, stinking of booze, says to my 9-year-old daughter, “Sweetheart,...
Redefining sex
Dear Dan: I love my wife, but I have a lot of resentment, disappointment and insecurity over our sex life. After four years of...
Matching seniors; Surviving bipartisan relationships
Dear Dan: I’m a 56-year-old widow. My husband died suddenly eight years ago. We had no children. I’ve learned how to get along on...
Why can’t I find a hot, young woman with no baggage?
Dear Dan: I’m 64 years young, a musician, chubby, full head of hair, no Viagra needed, no alcohol, I don’t mind if you drink,...
Va va vulva
Dear Dan: A question on your favorite topic, Dan. Just kidding, it’s a question about my vagina. I’m having a problem with the microbiome...
Cheats
Dear Dan: My boyfriend of five years is a sweet, smart, handsome, loving, supportive, middle-aged, chubby white guy. We have a fulfilling sex life....
