Savage Love
Looking for some spanking recreation; Turned on by getting dumped?
Dear Dan: I’m a fan from way back. A therapist told me to go out and have some fun — I’m a married woman...
Maybe your friend is the weird one; Lacking sex communication
Dear Dan: I wanted to tell you about something that happened to my friend. (Really!) She was going to bang this dude from OkCupid...
Taking one for the team?
Dear Dan: I’ve been reading your advice column in the Coast in Halifax for a while, and it seems that most solutions to relationship...
A smatter of questions
Last week, I spoke at the Wilbur Theater in Boston and the Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute in Troy, New York. Audience members submitted their questions...
Stay or go?; Do I like one more than the other?
Dear Dan: I write you from Italy, where I follow you through Internazionale. I am a guy in his 30s sexually paralyzed with his...
Put it in your spank bank, but don’t talk about it
Dear Dan:
I am quite the follower on social media — Facebook and Twitter in particular. I make no trolling comments, no #MAGA hashtags;...
Ear sex?; Homeless fantasy sex?; Right context sex?
Dear Dan: About a year ago, I was pretending to read my boyfriend’s mind and jokingly said, “You want to put it in my...
What do I tell the stripper?; Bye reader
Dear Dan: My partner and I have been playing with male chastity devices. We’ve been considering going to a strip club while his cock...
Finding the right match; Finding the right job title
Dear Dan: My brother is a virgin and turning 30 in a few weeks. He said he wants to hire an escort just for...
Answering the runoff
Earlier this month, we recorded our Savage Lovecast Christmas Spectacular live at Revolution Hall in Portland, Oregon. The audience submitted questions on tiny cards...
More feet; Understanding my attractions; Election blues
Dear Dan: I’m a 35-year-old man in a serious relationship — the best I’ve ever been in — with a girl I’ll likely marry....
Husbandry
Dear Dan: I’m a 44-year-old married gay male. I recently found out my 30-year-old husband has been sending dick pics to randoms on Grindr....