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Astrology 12/1/16
ARIES
March 21-April 19: Normally I cheer you on when you devote single-minded attention to pressing concerns, even if you become a bit obsessive. But...
ICUMI (In case you missed it)
Snow day
In case you missed it, it snowed like 2 feet on Wednesday and a bunch of roads throughout Boulder County were closed. We...
Astrology: 8/17/17
ARIES
March 21-April 19: “To disobey in order to take action is the byword of all creative spirits,” said philosopher Gaston Bachelard. This mischievous advice...
Don’t do a Nazi
Dear Dan: I’m a woman in my early 30s having sex with a guy in his early 20s. The sex is more than casual,...
Astrology 2/28/19
ARIES
March 21-April 19: South Koreans work too hard. Many are on the job for fourteen hours a day, six days a week. That’s why...
Should I cheat?; Queer peg in a straight hole
Dear Dan: I am a fortysomething bi woman happily married to a newly transitioned 50ish trans woman. I have a history of putting myself...
Physical distancing do’s and don’t’s
Dear Dan: My question is on managing “gray area” intimacies during the pandemic. I have a lover/friend that I’ve been hanging out with—fucking, drinking...
Astrology 10/31/19
ARIES
March 21-April 19: Do you have any skill in fulfilling the wishes and answering the prayers of your allies? Have you developed a capacity...
Rain checks
Dear Dan: I’m a 33-year-old woman in a relationship with a 43-year-old man. My boyfriend’s fantasy is to have a threesome with another man....
It it me?; Anti-climax; She cheated, not me; My new gay...
Dear Dan: I’m a single gay male in my 40s. I have a good life and do good work. I’m not worried about finding...









